Self Evaluation for beginners

 

So, we are at the fun part of our journey, the Evaluation. The reason why this process is so important is because you have to be able to evaluate yourself to break free. Evaluation at this level would be taking a step back and looking into your life. The thing with this is that you have to do it unbiasedly. The reason why you must do this is because you must make sure that you are not making excuses for your bad habits or unhealthy behavior. Time and time again we as humans make excuses in our head of why things aren’t happening the way we want them to. At the end of the day, I hate to tell you this but... subconsciously you manifested a lot of your life situations. Once you come to terms with this it will really help your journey. That is why changing your relationship with the universe is a key factor in breaking your loop. Let’s break down the what, now that we know the why.

Let’s start with what you will be evaluating. In order to successfully make a plan of action for self your going to be have to be honest with yourself. Start with the area in your life you’re interesting in improving. You will need to decide “what is it that I want to achieve?” Once you figure out what areas you feel you need to improve you’ve already started off at a good place. At this point you are taking control in your life and that’s amazing. Here is where the hard part comes into play, you must look at somethings in life differently. Ask yourself “what have I done to contribute to my situation?” Now this might sound crazy to most but it is what it is. There is something that your are doing that’s hindering your group and that is exactly why breaking the loop in your life is so needed. Once you take a step to step back and see yourself for who you truly are a lot of things will change. One of the main problems with our society is that a lot of people don’t know their true selves and don’t love it like they should. Just like we nurture our body we must nurture our minds as well. It’s hard to grow and move forward in your life if you can’t accept areas where growth is needed.

Maybe you’re not the best athlete but you love the idea of staying fit and working out. Your goal should be to change your relationship with the universe. You might not be athletic but be very easy to commitment to things. Now you must figure out what you are doing in your life that you can control, that’s stopping your growth. Maybe it’s that you keep picking the same kind of men/woman To be with. It could be that you keep taking the same kind of dead in jobs instead of actually deciding to choose a career. Everything look all good in your life but you keep allowing yourself to be taken advantage of by that one person in your life. No matter the situation at the end of the day which you must know and understand is that there is something that you are doing to contribute to the situation. The best way to grow and knock yourself out of this unhealthy cycle is to figure out what you can at least do to help your case. This way you are putting all of your positive energy to work because you are looking at things as growing opportunities not failures.

All right now we have gotten to the meat and potatoes. It’s time to build your plan of execution. What is basically means is that you’re going to be a process that’s going to help you grow through a spiritual growth journey. Let’s review a little bit of what we’ve done so far. So far we’ve introduced ourselves to who we truly are we done a little deep digging done some soul- searching and we were able to pinpoint some areas of growth. Now that we know and understand these areas of growth it’s time for us to build our plan of action. How you choose to build this plan is really up to you! I will give you a few tools so in the future you are prepared. Let’s start with talking about the elephant in the room. When making goals one of the main things is to remember is must be relevant, measurable and achievable. If you keep those things in your head while creating goals you will build a strong plan for success. The best way to think about this is “what can I do right now to effect change in my life?”

You are at a point where it is time to take everything you have learned about yourself and make some changes. One of the best ways to think about this is a “21 days builds a habit”. If you can go 21 days strong on whatever goal you would like to achieve, you will be able to make drastic change in your life.
First things first in order to set some goals you are going to need to do some brainstorming first. When you’re brainstorming you’re taking a bunch of ideas and just putting them down on paper so that they’re out of your head and in front of your face. This term is used in literature all the time. The art of brainstorming when it comes to goal setting is about what you want. First step grab a sheet of paper and write out all of your goals and dreams pertaining to this area of growth in your life. You need to write down your very best thoughts or ideas in list form.

Once you have your list, group the options by areas in your life. By doing this your are organizing your growth process and giving it structure. Structure sometimes is the only thing you can count on to stay constant in your life. You need to sit down and summarize each goal. Give a detailed description of the objectives and plans action for each goal you set. Make sure that you are logical with your expectations but don’t limit yourself. Start with the easy areas in your life to grow because that will give you strength and show you that you can! Take your time and conquer one thing at a time. Make sure that you build in rewards for your growth process. Last but not least get creative.

Understanding the goal, we want to achieve is most important! When it comes to the trifecta of life, we are talking about the goal of attaining true balance in 3 main areas of your life. The three main areas of growth are light, life, and love. For the purposes of understanding you can think of them like this: Spiritual= Light, Career/Finance = Life, and Relationships = Love. Okay, so what am I even saying? What I am saying is that you can achieve abundance in all areas of your life. What is abundance? Abundance means a large quantity of something. In the regards to an abundant life, that means having an abounding fullness in all things mind, body, and soul related.
This fullness means having a “glass half full” mentality instead of “glass half empty”. Let us talk about what this means.

When you live your life in an understanding that is surrounded by positivity and gratefulness you change your relationship with the universe. As normal humans we live in a world that has been formed by chaos. I know you have heard the term ‘woke’. Woke is a slang term that has been given to a state of consciousness. There is a belief that we are walking blind in this world from birth, meaning that we are not conscious of anything but what exist to us currently. Now, this is interesting because you hear people say all the time, they can't believe in what they can't see.

The “glass half full” way of thinking is a optimistic life process. When you are thinking this way, you are not focused on what you don’t have. Every time you wake up, and you open your eyes, you should feel grateful for everything you have currently. Instead of whining and complaining about what you don’t have, live your life with thankfulness. Optimism is hopefulness and confidence about the future or the successful outcome of something. When you think “glass half full” you are sending positive energy out into the universe and that is what can help you most in life.

When you think “glass half empty”, this means you live life always starving for more. This is the pessimistic way of life. When you think of things you are thinking in terms of what you don’t have instead of just being grateful for what you do. This is normally the person who is always complaining. This way of thinking really hinders you in life. Pessimism is a tendency to see the worst aspect of things or believe that the worst will happen. Success is about understanding that true wealth is not just about money it’s a lifestyle or a way of living. The goal here when looking into your trifecta, is to determine what kind growth is needed in your life.

As you take a moment to assess your life, things will just start to make since. Being humans we have the innate ability to grow and learn. With that being said the whole point of our existence is to grow ourselves to a higher level of spiritual understanding. Now by breaking through to your trifecta, you are opening the door to conscious living. When you have an understanding of the life you have created, you can start to move on to your mission or life purpose. Well all have something here we were meant to do or be, once you figure that out the doors of true abundance will open.

Your goal here is to achieve life balance. Always remember the thoughts are power. Every bit of energy you put out into the universe positive or negative come back. So, during this growth experience, try to keep you thoughts and actions positive. The law of attraction has no boundaries. As long as you know like you know, like you know, will things manifest things that are best for you.